Saturday 31 October 2026 · 15:00

The Ceremony

One afternoon, one celebration, with those we love.

The order of the day

How the afternoon runs

It begins at 15:00 and the bridal team enters at half past. Please arrive for three, not at some point in the half hour that follows, so that you are settled rather than walking in during the procession. Everything after that is singing, eating and dancing until the elders decide otherwise.

15:00

Arrival

It begins, so be here for three. That gives you time to park, greet the people you have not seen in years, and find your seat before the procession.

15:30

The bridal team enters

The procession begins. Please be seated by now; once it starts, latecomers are held at the back until it has finished.

15:45

The bride is received

The handing over between the two families, and the words of the elders. This is the heart of the day.

16:15

Opening prayer and a word from the pastor

Our pastor opens the day in prayer and shares a short message. A few still minutes before the celebrating begins in earnest.

17:00

The feast

Isitshwala, inyama yenkomo, umxhanxa, rice, salads and everything else the aunties have been planning since March. Come hungry.

18:30

Speeches and toasts

Kept short, we promise. The uncles have been warned twice.

19:00

Dancing

The floor opens and does not close for some time. Amabhiza, imbube, amapiano and whatever you asked for on your RSVP.

22:00

Close

Farewells, and safe travels home. Please plan your journey in advance and check your last train time before the day.

Confirm Your Attendance

Before you come

Three things worth knowing

It begins at 15:00 and the bridal team enters at 15:30. Please arrive for three, not later. The procession will not wait, and nobody enjoys walking in during it.
Black and white, and traditional attire is warmly encouraged. If you have none, smart dress in black and white is perfect.
It is dark by five. The clocks go back the Sunday before, so the sun sets at 16:31. The ceremony itself is in daylight, but it will be long dark by the time you leave. Everything is indoors and warm; bring a coat for the door.

Novuyo and Muzingaye in traditional attire